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Robert Childs MD's avatar

Thank you for the outstanding essay! Beyond mere metaphor this transcends thought. It points to how, from our first gasp at birth onward, it is our action that plows the furrow of our life ! And it is quite exactly about society's situation today. "Ours (Theirs) is not to reason why, Ours (Theirs) is but to do and die" (The Charge of The Light Brigade) https://interestingliterature.com/2021/06/tennyson-theirs-not-reason-why-theirs-but-do-die-meaning-analysis/

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Sam Alaimo's avatar

You are very welcome, that is a stellar reference. Thank you for sharing this.

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The Radical Individualist's avatar

I often think of how some people go on weekend camping trips. For two days, they give up comfort to experience 'nature'. Perhaps they climb a mountain that does need to be climbed.

Why? What need does this fill? It indicates that something isn't quite right about those other five days of the week.

A subsistence farmer, poor but successfully feeding and housing his family, probably does not spend the weekend looking for fulfillment. Feeding and housing his family is all the fulfillment he needs. Many of us have jobs that, if we didn't do them, it wouldn't make that much difference. Those people are likely to seek a challenge, artificial as it may be, that gives their existence meaning.

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Sam Alaimo's avatar

I completely agree with your intuition on this - the poor farmer has a deeply rooted sense of purpose because every action is life sustaining, muscles are used, things are done. The work/life balance was never a balance - it was simply life and it was fulfilling. Thank you for adding this in.

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Barry Lederman's avatar

Wow! If these words don’t wake someone from “self-pitty”! I read this essay as continuation of last week’s.

As I said before, do not leave room for the “why” - just do!

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Sam Alaimo's avatar

That is it!

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Charles Clemens's avatar

That story touched my heart.

There is something good in every thing.

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Sam Alaimo's avatar

I'm grateful you enjoyed it, Charles.

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Anthony Wanis Stjohn's avatar

We certainly seem--as a species--to do our best when we are challenged in some specific way. And we don't always thrive spiritually, morally in abundance. We rot inside with a mean sense of entitlement and wonder why life seems to have no purpose. But I'd say few people lean into the wall of fire. It's not for everyone. The purpose for each is out there (and really, 'in here'). Few will think it important to seek it out. War and struggle and displacement and... plain hard work give those who experience them focus like nothing else. Thank you Sam

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Sam Alaimo's avatar

I'm stoked you enjoyed it. You raise an interesting point that few will seek it out. I think that's the problem exactly. We never really had to seek it out since nature brought it to us. It might be that seeking it out is the art of living in affluence.

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Kyle Shepard's avatar

Powerful as always. How we live can eventually provide a meaningful why. Passive living does not provide answers for thriving. Important perspective for those who don’t have a good answer to those questions yet.

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Sam Alaimo's avatar

On point, brother.

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Deb Williamson's avatar

Indeed. Thank you very much.

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Sam Alaimo's avatar

You are most welcome.

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Baird Brightman's avatar

Brilliant, Sam! 👏 Starts to provide an answer to the cycles of war lust that surge across civilizations (a big one is starting now as the last WWI vets are passing away).. We are just not built for bourgeois contentment!

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Sam Alaimo's avatar

"Bourgeois contentment" is a great way to put it. I'm glad you enjoyed this, Baird. Thanks for reading.

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Jesse C. McEntee's avatar

I'm brought back to a question my spouse and I continually ask ourselves in the context of our children: religion. I'm not religious and our children have been raised without that structure, and by most standards, they're affluent. Now that they're teenagers, I wonder how the structure and purpose from a broader framework (like war or religion) can be developed (if possible?). Otherwise, we're likely to float along, wondering what's the purpose of it all.

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Sam Alaimo's avatar

For my part, I think it is all interconnected. It is an engagment with the world around us without waiting for some magical meaning to arise from within. I imagine you feel this while hunting, especially when it really begins to suck, and when simply being warm is the best thing in the world.

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Jesse C. McEntee's avatar

Yes, and to be honest, those moments in the chase are when I feel most alive...there is only one thing to focus on.

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Sam Alaimo's avatar

It is one of the best drugs on earth

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Ed Brenegar's avatar

Thank you for introducing Junger to people. He is one of those singular figures of the 20th century who cannot be pigeonholed, but stands apart as a reference point of uniqueness in perspective that casts light on every side in the conflicts that defined the past century.

I also want to say that it is worth the time to visit the new World War One memorial in Washington DC. I visited it Sunday. It was very moving.

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Sam Alaimo's avatar

It is my pleasure, Ed. I need to make it down for the monument, I wasn’t aware of it.

Junger was truly epic. He was his own man. The poetry he was able to see in the absolute worst that we can endure, the war, the duty - all of it is admirable.

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Chuck Schlegel's avatar

We emerging from a season in which tens of millions of folks seeking a “why?” crafted one around the cost of goods, around a pursuit of affluence, forsaking any sense of gratitude - for my Pop’s WWII flights from Enzio to eradicate fascism on up to your seeking rocks for cover, or for the simple fact we already have an abundance of nourishing, fruit-bearing, and life-affirming “Why?” option as well as myriad of tools and avenues for create meaningful and fulfilling “How?” pathways. As you have noted, beginning in reverse with a gratitude-centric “how?” Is a good place to start.

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Sam Alaimo's avatar

Well said, Chuck. It does not take much to look beyond "cost of goods" and a "pursuit of affluence." Our warriors like your Pop can give us a world of wisdom.

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Truman Angell's avatar

Sadly, Junger is not read as much as he deserves to be.

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Sam Alaimo's avatar

I was just saying the same thing in another thread. Junger should be mandatory reading in the military, and far more adopted outside the military. The man poeticized the most extreme hardship endurable.

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Edward's avatar

Tremendous! much gratitude for essay! Abide!

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Sam Alaimo's avatar

You're welcome!

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Benjamin Davis's avatar

“Those who have a 'why' to live, can bear with almost any 'how'.”

Great write up Sam.

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Sam Alaimo's avatar

I appreciate it brother.

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Peter Jones's avatar

Politicians pick at the holes.

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